Many parents are asking us for help in arranging a special ceremony to welcome their new child. In Britain the number of christenings is steadily falling, and people are seeking a more inclusive way of marking this happy event.
We have years of experience in preparing ceremonies that don't mention religion, so that all your family and friends can relate to what is being said, whether they are religious or not.
Most parents choose to hold the ceremony at the start of a celebratory party, either at their home or at a special venue they've booked. The formal ceremony can be as short or long as you want, but will usually last about 20 minutes
In the ceremony, you can state your love and commitment to your child, and your hopes for its future happiness and welfare. You can include poems or prose readings, and whatever music you want.
Instead of godparents, you can choose relatives or friends to become 'supporting adults' or 'mentors', or 'special friends'. They can join in the ceremony, saying how they will be there for your child as he or she grows up.
You might want to mark the occasion with a book in which everyone present can write a message for your child to read when it is older. Perhaps you might plant a tree if you have a garden. We have lots of ideas that will make your ceremony unique and truly memorable.
If you have other children, why not let them join in the ceremony? If they are old enough they could read a short poem, or play some music. Friends and relatives may well want to add their own special thoughts.
If you would like to know more about how to plan a memorable and meaningful non-religious baby naming ceremony, contact Susan Ramsey, Tel: 0191 455 1549
Email: susanramsey1@hotmail.co.uk
